No. 61 (July/August 2002)
Breathing and Personality Traits:
by Win Wenger, Ph.D.
We've known for decades now that when you are paying attention to some stimulus, internal or external, you hold your breath.
And when you breathe, that is part of the pattern and process wherein you are shifting your attention to some other stimulus. (See Two GUARANTEED Ways to Profoundly Improve Your Intelligence.)
Your breathing is the pacemaker for your brain and mind, controlling your attention span and awareness span [ibid.].
We've also known for decades that a short breathing span is greatly implicated in:
The validity of this second effect I have, over the years, invited perhaps 100,000 or so people to test directly for themselves, and maybe a half dozen or so have actually done so. The rest have preferred either to speculate about the matter or to shrug off the relationship as absurd and probably non-existent. But it is so remarkably EASY to test this effect for yourself: go do something aerobic such as jogging, run up a mild oxygen debt and then try to read (or do any close-attention task!) BEFORE your breathing settles back down!
Before I climb back down off my so very solitary soapbox about this remarkable reading issue, let me ask you:
If the child's problem IS that of being so short of breath that he can't pay attention, and he can't get to the end of an ordinary sentence without losing its meaning, what good is all the arduous and expensive remediation he is now receiving by your school's current methods?
Well, what if the teacher tries harder?
Well, what if the kid tries harder?
Well, somehow, it has to be the kid's fault he isn't "getting it." Right? He just must not be paying attention or something.
To add to the absurdity the painful, costly, human absurdity chorus and band are usually regarded as "extracurricular," therefore open only to kids who keep their grades up.
But such remedial children as HAVE gotten to sing for a year or longer in at least the church choir, if not the school chorus most of these children found their reading or remedial problems have simply disappeared. Likewise with kids who've gotten to play in the band for a year, in either brass or wind instruments which, like singing, require that one develop some degree of breath control.
But because music is an "extracurricular frill," most of the kids who really need that exercise to develop their breathing, or need field and track or swimming so they can correct their remedial problem and GET their grades up most of them are reflexively denied this simple opportunity. They are forced instead to go on with the arduous and expensive "remediation" until they finally drop out of school.
All meaningful human experience is a matter of relationships
how much difference will a change in one thing mean in others? All
meaningful human thinking revolves around relationships and the perceiving of
relationships. The very short-winded kid never gets to experience that human
dimension of thought and perception his "I.Q." can't help but sag badly.
Yet fix up his breathing, and in a matter of months his "I.Q." can climb 25,
35 or even 50 points as his functions extend into normality.
An element of this issue which
may mean more to readers
We've gone over this before, we've shown ways to treat the condition, cited evidence [ibid.]. Despite the human costs and human stakes, I don't really expect many more people to respond to these points than did to my prior article on the matter. It may be 50 or 100 years before people pay enough attention to the evidence right before their noses to stop this awful wastage of generation after generation of initially innocent children. But I'm writing this from another angle, on another aspect for which I do not have scientific evidence but only plausible speculation. Perhaps people will care more about matters of personality traits and who fits what profile per Myers-Briggs and then their responses to that side of breathing dynamics will, in turn, lead to broader awareness of the more fundamental issues.
If you can't usually hold your breath for 40 seconds or longer, or even 30 seconds, this forces your life into a set of strategies and practices which are very different from that majority (?) of people who can in reasonable comfort hold their breath for 40 seconds or longer.
Likewise, this hypothesis:
People who can hold their breath in reasonable comfort for 50, 60 seconds or longer, have available to them various strategies and practices which shape THEIR lives. These various strategies, cumulatively reinforced over time, become "personality traits."
Let me give an example. Sooner or later, most of us find ourselves in some sort of argument. Most of us want, and try, to win the argument we find ourselves in, or at least to make a point or so. Then how does breathing, which controls your span of attention, affect the strategies available to you for scoring your points or winning your arguments? The strategies whose cumulative practice builds into being "personality traits?"
Simply put, here are two strategies for trying to score points or win arguments two strategies which are very different from each other:
Which of these two strategies is practically required for the person whose breath and whose attention can't sustain past 30 seconds?
Which of these two strategies is available and appropriate to those who can hold their focus nearly twice as long?
And, of course, who generally DOES get to win the arguments?
But it's not winning arguments that I'm really talking about here. It's about what causes various "personality traits" to be, which have been thought to be indelibly intrinsic to the person just as a given formal I.Q. score used to be thought to be indelibly, unchangeably intrinsic to the person. It's about traits whose causes may actually be specific; traits which can actually be readily changed.
Thus far, I think we're still on pretty solid ground with this, even though no scientific studies have been permitted in correlating breathing span with personality traits.
Now let me climb a little way out on a limb and propose that such correlations are really there... that, for example, most very short-winded people will tend to be aggressive, impatient, and immediately assertive, and pretty quick to fly off the handle.,, and that most people whose comfortable breathing span runs longer than 50 seconds will tend to be patient, easy-going, even genial, and will tend to win more of their arguments.
Change their respective breathing spans and these indelibly individual intrinsic personality traits could reverse.
Of course, other factors can also lead to these various different strategy traits and, in some instances, will have been the cause, more so than the breathing span. Or they may have shaped the traits more strongly than did the breathing span, though that seems pretty powerful. It is the TENDENCY we're looking for, the TREND as to whether breathing span DOES tend to correlate with actual personality traits.
So recognizing the following to be among a much broader range of possible conclusions, please turn to your watch or some sort of timer and measure how long you can comfortably hold your own breath.......
Now check yourself off against the following table, especially if you are under 30 seconds or over 50 seconds. Let us know your results, by email to Win Wenger and then go time the breathing of your co-worker, your neighbor, your spouse, your kid........
By derivation we hypothesize: Are you......
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